00:00 Introduction to the Drive On Podcast 05:57 Understanding the Transition from Military to Civilian Life 08:45 The Importance of Finding the Right Therapy 12:04 The Impact of Combat on Mental Health 15:01 The Need for Adrenaline and Risk-Taking 17:52 The Stigma of Veterans' Mental Health 21:01 The Role of Community in Healing 23:55 Patriotism and National Identity 26:46 The Complexity of Modern Warfare 29:56 Personal Stories and Reflections 32:56 The Journey into Military Service 42:51 Understanding the Gray Areas of Combat 44:34 Humor in the Military: A Coping Mechanism 49:35 Turning Blue: The Significance of Ceremony 52:26 The Impact of War on Family Dynamics 56:38 Deployment Experiences: From Training to Reality 01:00:59 Navigating the Afghanistan-Pakistan Border 01:15:46 The Protective Mechanism of Denial 01:16:48 Facing the Pain of Loss 01:18:02 Preserving Stephen's Legacy 01:18:43 The Importance of Storytelling 01:21:33 The Reality of War 01:22:49 The Finality of Death 01:27:22 The Aftermath of Grief 01:30:19 The Call of Duty 01:32:16 The Rage of Loss 01:36:44 The Sobering Reality of War 01:38:43 The Journey Home 01:40:40 The Weight of Public Attention 01:43:31 Speaking for the Fallen 01:48:39 Finding Healing Through Legacy 01:51:51 Living Life After Loss